His Kingdom, Not Mine – Day 7

 
“And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good,
for those who are called according to his purpose.”
Romans 8:28
 
This is a simple verse but it holds so much power. If we honestly love God, we are willing to work for His purpose, not our own. That is easy to say, but sometimes it can be hard to accomplish.
 
God has called me to work with children and youth. Throughout my adult life God gave me a passion to serve children and to influence young adults. I spent 15 years working for the School Board of Alachua County in their After School Programs. I used that outlet to show those students what they brought to the table – what gifts and passions they had been given – and how to use those gifts to better others’ lives.
 
God shut doors that I wasn’t meant to go through. He opened the ones that He had planned for me. Even in the midst of one journey, He closed the door I was walking through at the time. That closed door, at the time made me feel lost, like I didn’t have a purpose. I had forgotten who God made me to be. God’s timing is everything. That closed door led me to Servants, where I found a family to guide and love me as I am.
 
God restored my passion for children and youth. He showed me, and continues to show me, that He gave me specific gifts. I am to use those gifts to better His Kingdom, not mine. I may be loud and in your face. It may seem at times that I am driven, a never ending ball of energy. That comes from knowing I am where God wants me to be. Even when life feels overwhelming, I have a peace in my heart because I am where God has a purpose for me. That ministry is with our kids and teens at Servants. God has placed me in a ministry that I love. He uses that ministry to keep me close to Him, to grow in His Word daily and to learn from our children what it means humble myself before Him. I understand that I must be in a constant walk with Him, so I can help others find Him as well. To watch them have the joy of the Holy Spirit, to see them not be afraid to shout it from the mountain tops that they love Jesus, to watch them grow in God’s love, to see them figure out what He has called them to do for His Kingdom – these are blessings in themselves.
 
I know you love God. You want the work you do to be for His purpose. If you aren’t plugged into a ministry you may not know what that looks like. It looks like love, God’s love. When you think about serving, it should feel right. Not only while you are in the act of serving, but even the of act of praying over that ministry should bring you joy. I would encourage you to let God have control over your purpose, it’s His anyways. Pray that He would close the doors that aren’t meant to be, and push you through the one that has your name written all over it. When you hear someone mention a ministry and it feels like you are being pushed to stand up, that’s the Holy Spirit telling you to go. Let Him ignite a passion in your heart that only the act of serving and knowing that you are on God’s path can fulfill.
 
 
Kim Harris
 
 
 
Kim has been at Servants since the summer of 2014. In the fall of 2014 she joined the Servants’ staff as the Director of Children’s Ministries. Since then she has starting working in our youth program as well. She is actively involved in other children and youth ministries around our diocese, such as Camp Araminta, Dynamos, and Collide. She has been married to her amazing husband John for almost 16 years. They have three talented and spirited children: Katelynne, Kaycee, and Jack.
 


In Everything We Do – Day 6

 
The ongoing ministry I’ve been called to for this portion of my life is Dynamos. Dynamos is a weekend run by youth, for youth. The weekend is divided into team (high-school-age workers and adult chaperones), and candidates (essentially the campers for the weekend). The weekend is centered around a series of talks given by the team members and breakout sessions in small groups. We also have several surprises for the candidates to make an impactful experience for them. There are many candidates who have made a return to the faith at Dynamos, and even some who’ve made a first time commitment to Christ.
 
Right now, I’m the rector of Dynamos, which means I am in charge of details such as the schedule for the team meeting, inviting adults, sending out informational emails to the team, etc. This is my 7th time working team on Dynamos, and my 8th Dynamos overall. Dynamos has had a HUGE impact on me. Before Dynamos, the only two major youth events I had to look forward to were Camp Araminta in the summer and the All Souls ski retreat in the winter. Dynamos gave me two more opportunities every school year to get closer to God, which is huge because school can be monotonous and drag the spirit down. Dynamos gave me a sense of direction and purpose in my spiritual life. Through it I’ve learned how to become a better leader and discipler. The Spirit has revealed Himself to me at Dynamos several times, with the best story being from Dynamos 20.
 
On Dynamos 20 I was a group leader (a step out of my comfort zone), and I had a phenomenal group. I had the only group that year with mixed genders, with two 9th grade boys and two 12th grade girls. It was a group that shouldn’t have worked, but we got along really well. At the end of the weekend I got to pray for one of the members of my group, and she asked me to pray for her to have a return to faith. I recall praying that she would be “surrounded by Christians who would support her in her walk with Christ.” After I prayed for her, we sat at the fire pit with everyone else. Not too long after that she started crying. Quickly, the rest of the group and I laid hands on her to pray for her. Soon after that, other people came over to pray silently. Eventually, everyone at the fire pit were laying hands on each other, therefore “surrounding” her in supportive Christians. That was the first time that I saw an instant, tangible response to prayer.
 
Having a ministry like this does amazing things to one’s faith. For some people it may be hard to find a good ministry, but never give up hope! A few weeks ago Father James went over a long list of commitment needs in His sermon, so I know that there are always ministry opportunities out there. It doesn’t have to be anything too fancy or impressive. You may be called to build good relationships with people at your workplace, who knows? We can be ministering to people in everything we do. “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.” Matthew 7:7
 
Kieran Caspian Kirby
 
 
 
Kieran is a senior at P.K. Yonge Developmental Research School. This coming fall he will join the gap year program Agape Year where he will live in Pittsburgh, learning, training and preparing to travel for ministry to Thailand and other places. Look out for an opportunity coming in March to meet his team leaders and hear more about the ministry that’s already happening. He’s an actor, too, and you can see him this week in Pippin.


Greater Works Than These – Day 5

 
“…whoever believes in me will also do the works that I do; and greater works than these will (they) do…” John 14:12
 
I have always wrestled over this; the idea that God’s people are supposed to be miraculously healing the sick, driving out evil spirits, multiplying loaves and fishes. The Church is not known for doing those things. That has always frustrated me. But while recently fostering a little girl named Toby (who has since moved to a more permanent foster home), the meaning of these words was suddenly transformed from the expectation of a numinous miracle into the expectation of commonplace natural work. And in the same moment it dawned on me that the Gospel, while prescribing some guidelines for our lives, says little to prescribe the boundaries we should set around our households.
 
Toby is a sweet, gentle, curious six year old who is non-verbal and has autism spectrum disorder. She is wonderful. She loves being perched up high, and given the opportunity, she would climb on top of the chicken coop, the dresser in her room, or even the outside garbage can. These high places made her still and content. When she was in the house, she required constant supervision. And we learned the hard way that she must have clothes that separate her hands from her own dirty pull-up. (My wife is a saint, by the way).
 
Toby is wonderful. I love her. I wept over her difficult six years. In the three weeks she was with us, I came to have a deep love and homesickness for her that I have only felt toward my biological children. While Toby is gentle and curious, her care was incredibly difficult and challenging. She truly required constant hands-on supervision during waking hours. Our four biological children noticed the obvious diversion of our attention. She stretched us in ways that reminded me of having a newborn. Well, a four foot tall newborn that could reach the knives and played with her poop.
 
I have considered myself a Christian for most of my life, and sometime near the end of high school finally came face to face with Jesus, and “surrendered my life to Him.” Wrapped up in this was a recognition of and atonement for my immorality as well as a relationship with the One who made me, and also a desire to obey Jesus, which meant flight from sin, right? But that’s all incomplete. I have lived out the Gospel to date insofar as it has been reasonably convenient. It is reasonably convenient to pursue chastity because it blesses my marriage and children. It is reasonably convenient to love my neighbors because I gain their respect. You get the idea, right? But fostering is not reasonably convenient. It is a step of obedience that is unreasonably inconvenient. It often doesn’t feel right. Its victories seem momentary and even futile compared to the challenges looming behind them.
 
God’s entering humanity at Christmas was a helpful reminder to me that the escapism of my early faith was naïve and incomplete. I had pictured Jesus as a heavenly, bearded Caucasian man repelling out of a helicopter and carrying me back up to safety. And He did do that (minus the strong Caucasian and helicopter parts), but that is not all He does. He tells us that we will do “even greater works than these.” And those greater works are really, really hard. And they are overwhelming, and dirty, and untimely, and inconvenient, and costly, and almost never align with our weekend plans. I absolutely fumbled with and struggled through fostering that beautiful child. I wanted to quit every day. But while she was in our home we took things day by day. Ministry is hard. Some ministry is really, really hard. But that doesn’t necessarily mean we are not called to it. Indeed, the disciples left their nets (economy), their families (culture, identity, and security), their comfort (friends, traditions, beds, etc.).
 
Lastly I want to make it a point to mention that we do not do ministry in order to please God, or in order to fulfill all righteousness, or atone for our sinfulness. Jesus already does those things on our behalf. We do ministry, whether it comes easily, naturally, awkwardly, or brutally, as a response to Jesus and a pursuit of His face. It is and will be hard. But doing difficult things alongside Jesus, in obedience to Him, day after day, one step at a time, is the means of doing greater works in the Christian life.
 
 
Ethan Stonerook
 
 
 
Ethan is a husband, a father of four biological children (as he mentioned above), and a foster father. He and his wife became foster parents in September 2017. Ethan works in oncology, is involved with Young Life, is our Senior Warden and serves as a lay reader on occasion.


A Culture of Ministry – Day 4

 
For the past 24 years, Bob and I have owned or been owned by a service business. Although I never thought of this as a formal ministry, our business has certainly afforded me the opportunity to minister on numerous levels daily. And for us, it begins with our employees, who are our most important assets. We have always hoped to develop a culture of ministry which goes beyond just cleaning homes and businesses.
 
It wasn’t until several years in, when I had little ambition to grow our business, that something changed. I have always coached people to either be happy where they are or make a change. At the time, selling a business and making a change seemed so complicated. I couldn’t just give my two-week notice and pack my desk. I knew that just cleaning homes and making good money in the process was not fulfilling me, but how could I change to make what we do or how we do it to be more meaningful?
 
I started by agreeing to frequently visit the girls’ juvenile detention center and speak to the inmates about ambition and leadership. I was fortunate enough to bring in other female leaders in our community. The girls loved Ramona Chance. Some were uninterested and just wanted to be heard and others hopefully began to see potential in themselves. This energized me, too.
 
We also began to give free cleanings while women were going through cancer treatments through our “Cleaning for a Reason” program. We love how this can bless a family through a very hard time but just as importantly, our employees have been blessed to realize they are a part of a ministry. One long-time client was in her last stages of cancer but home in a hospital bed. One time when her cleaning team was there for their regularly scheduled visit, she requested that they sit with her a while and they prayed with her. She died a few days later.
 
Over the years, we have employed hundreds of people. I often pray for each of our current employees by name, sometimes to just ask God to make sure they get to work that day! We have always encouraged them to embrace the fact that they are doing more than just cleaning homes; they are impacting the life of the family who comes home at the end of their day to a fully clean house. We try to help them see the blessing they give through this. Often, I hear from a client that our company has actually helped them be a better parent by taking away stress and bringing a bit more peace into the home.
 
But to empower the employees to believe in this important ministry, they have needed to be ministered to also, like all of us do. We have loved them through their trials as they have done for us. I hope they know we love them as people first, employees second. Keeping this balance is sometimes difficult but I do believe they stay with our company so long because they do feel important and even in some cases, spiritually fed, even if they may not realize it.
 
I would suggest that we can all create a ministry in our workplace, where we spend most of our time. We can be the calm in a storm, the support in despair, and simply show joy every day. Showing joy is the best reflection of God and the best way to show His love. So hard some days, but so very simple too!
 
 
Carol Doak
 
 
 
Carol has been a member of Servants since it was founded, having been at St. Michael’s prior to that. She spends much of her time with work and taking care of her 93-year-old mother. She loves Gator sports, exercise, and travelling to see her kids who are scattered in Atlanta, New York City, and Virginia. She has been a part of some type of ministry during most of her time attending Servants.


Called to Serve – Day 3

 
I have learned that spiritual growth is a choice and is necessary to deepen our relationship with God, the Lord Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit. It is making Jesus the Lord of our lives and submitting to the guiding power and blessings of the Holy Spirit. Spiritual growth is not the same thing as being religious. Religion comes from regimens of rigid traditions, ceremonies, and mandated deeds; originating in man-made rules or religious laws where obedience is often guilt-motivated. Godly spirituality does not come from what man has dictated, but from true and earnest desires from the heart to become righteous and more Christ-like in our everyday lives.
 
The New Testament says that Christians are commanded to serve one another. None of the words for service or ministry is restricted to the ordained clergy. Whether we are ordained or not, we are all called to serve the Lord by serving one another. We should minister to one another’s needs. God has given each of us a ministry. God has given us abilities so that we will use them to serve others. It has been said that the Lord doesn’t call the equipped; He equips the called. God used men and women with similar doubts to change the course of history. Moses didn’t think he was a leader or speaker, but God worked through Moses to bring Israel out of slavery. David was the youngest and therefore most insignificant of all his brothers, but God worked through David to defeat a giant and eventually made him a king. Paul used to kill Christians before he met Jesus, but he went on to become one of the most highly regarded and prolific writers/church planters in history. God doesn’t just want to work through you, He wants to work in you.
 
God has called me to prison ministry and I serve in two related ministries: Kairos Prison Ministry and House of Hope. Kairos is a Christian faith based ministry which addresses the spiritual needs of incarcerated men and women by sharing the love and forgiveness of Jesus Christ. House of Hope is a non-profit residential halfway house located in Gainesville, Florida. Their goal is to help men and women obtain a fresh start in life by learning the basics of living a Christ-centered life.
 
God has a plan for all of us and a cycle for everything we are planned to do in accordance with His will. To do all that life demands of us we must find balance by:
  1. Discovering our purpose in the world. Our purpose in life is to know God through His son Jesus Christ and to live for Him.
  2. Establishing our priorities. Setting priorities is not about choosing between what is good and what is bad. That has been settled when you decide to live out your purpose in life. Priorities have to be set when the choice is between what is good and what is best, between what will be beneficial and what is actually God’s will for you.
  3. Making a plan. You can understand your purpose and set your priorities, but if you have no plan on how to make it happen, it will never happen. Nothing is going to happen until you make it happen.
Your ministry will be unique to your personal gifts and calling, and you will have time for God to use you because you have made a plan. Just get involved in the ministry that God is calling you to and let God change your heart as you serve others.
 
 
Fred Cantrell
 
 
 
 
Fred is a retired administrator of the University of Florida. He joined Servants in the last year and a half and is treasurer for House of Hope where he uses his background in finance administration to aid the organization. As he mentioned above, he also works with Kairos Prison Ministry.


Bringing the Presence of Jesus – Day 2

 
But if we walk in the light as He is in the light,
we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son,
purifies us from all sin.
1 John 1:7
 
A great way to fellowship with one another is to be a Eucharistic Visitation Minister (EVM). An EVM takes communion to the homebound and sick, in homes, hospitals, nursing homes and rehab centers. It is a ministry that blesses the EVM as much as it blesses those we visit.
 
An EVM brings the presence of Jesus, in the host and wine, to our members who cannot attend the worship service on Sunday. What could be more glorious? Often we get to share this with family and friends as well. I remember taking communion to Ben* at an assisted living facility in Lake City on a Palm Sunday. Ben was sitting outside on the front porch. As we began going through the readings and prayers, several residents joined us. They shared in our communion, asked for palms, and were eager for my return visit. It was a wonderful experience, like so many others I have had over the years of being an EVM.
 
I have read that efficiency, multitasking and busyness all kill intimacy. Most of my daily routine involves all three. Maybe it does yours too. This is not true when I am acting as an EVM. Time stops. We share the word of God, prayer and communion using a simplified liturgy. It is an intimate moment for all of us. It is fellowship and community in the presence of Jesus.
 
Being an EVM requires a small, flexible, time commitment that helps the homebound stay connected with their church family. You will be blessed by the intimacy, joy and comfort you bring to the communicants. Consider joining me on a visitation, especially during this Lenten season. Commit an hour of your time and come feel the presence of Jesus as we gather in His name.
 
 
Ramona Chance
 
 
 
Ramona has been at Servants since the beginning. She’s served as a chalice bearer since then and moved into the Eucharistic Visitation Minister role in 2010. Ramona loves reading, cooking, and hospitality. Years ago she was into costuming for theater and recently saw the traveling Star Wars Costume Exhibit at the Fine Arts Museum in St. Petersburg, FL (which was awesome!). Ultimately though, Ramona’s goal in life is mentor women. When she dies she doesn’t want to hear that she was a good lawyer (though that may be true), but rather that there are women whose lives are better because they knew her.

 

If you’re interested in accompanying Ramona on an EVM visit, you can contact her at rchance@mindspring.com.

 

*The person is real, but the name has been changed to protect personal information and to avoid any HIPAA violations.



Go Out & Seek – Day 1

 
 
The season of Lent is often a reflective and expectant time for most people. For me it is living in the reminder that Jesus fought for me and defied the odds. Jesus did this through the outlet of Young Life, which is also the ministry I am most involved in.
 
The mission of Young Life is one closest to the heart of God. Our mission is to seek the lost, disinterested and unchurched teenager. If we look at Jesus’ time on earth, “to seek the lost, disinterested and unchurched teenager” speaks closest to who He was/is and what He was/is about. He walked into the homes of cruel tax collectors, stood up for adulterous women and spoke to the blind beggar. This is a very small part of the character and actions of Jesus.
 
Young Life is all about Jesus. This ministry has been so attractive to me because Jesus gave me a Young Life leader that showed me the heart of Jesus and how He fought for me and is still fighting for me. The world has told me time and time again that I am not supposed to be a Christian and I don’t need Jesus. My flesh tells me I can do life on my own. But God is in constant pursuit. My rebellion isn’t enough for Him.
 
Being a Young Life leader has been the greatest honor. I get to chase after high school kids alongside Jesus. I am only paving the way. Through my relationships with the girls at Gainesville High School, I am constantly reminded that our God is for everyone. He isn’t just for the 30-year-old who has decided to settle down and have kids and “give up their life.” He is for all people, of all ages, of all backgrounds. He has wanted us from the beginning and He is always going to want us. Jesus is the definition of life. He is the definition of life to the fullest and life in abundance.
 
In the past couple years of being a Young Life leader, I’ve seen hundreds of kids come into a relationship with Jesus. This has happened at Young Life Camps, at Young Life Club on a Monday night, and at Campaigners (Bible study) group. All we have done is walk alongside our friends, going where they are instead of waiting for them to come to us.
 
In this season of Lent, let us go out and seek others. Let us seek out those who look nothing like us and those with whom our paths would not cross. Let us use this season to best reflect the life of our Savior. To serve God is to serve His people. To love God is to love our people.

 

Dish Gangulee

 

Dish began her time at Servants in The Share women’s Bible study group. She’s a senior at the University of Florida and will be graduating this spring. Dish has been with Young Life (YL) for over three years. She’s applied for a job as a Staff Associate with YL. If she gets the position, she will training for 2-3 years to become an area director – the heart of that job is caring for the YL leaders in her area and pursuing Jesus. Dish loves food and people, though not in that order. She loves to travel, too (mostly to see people). Please pray for her as she moves into this new phase of ministry.



3 Reasons We Live Stream

 
If you’re a regular attender at Servants, you’ll probably have noticed at some point over the last year, the presence of an iPhone on a tripod planted somewhere in the sanctuary. You may have also noticed the woman near the tripod with her face glued to her phone for most of the service, and you may have even asked yourself how she can be so rude. It’s a legitimate question. It’s pretty rude. But is serves a purpose and it’s that purpose I want to share with you.
 
There are three reasons we stream our services live. There are probably more, but these three sum it up nicely. We stream to comfort the body of Christ, to offer those who might never step in our building the experience of a liturgical service, and to be an inviting and wholesome presence on Facebook.
 

Comfort

Our live stream began at the request of Fr. Michael who knew he would be spending significant time away from Servants due to health issues. He couldn’t be present with us without putting his health in danger, so he stayed at home and joined us on Facebook. Just this past Sunday, a woman who was ill and unable to attend her own church in North Carolina joined us. She asked for (and received) prayer. I know of many others who take advantage of gathering virtually because of business trips, vacations, and a handful of other reasons. We want people to be with us in person, but when life keeps them away, we want to offer them the comfort of being close to the body of Christ.
 

Liturgy

As Anglicans, we value the liturgy that has been given to us and we want to share it with others. Liturgy allows us to learn Scripture and theological truths by heart, orienting us to Christ in a world that easily tempts us away from Him. But liturgy can be uncomfortable to a first-timer, so having a way to glimpse our life together without feeling insecure is a benefit. Even if they ultimately decide to go elsewhere, hopefully what they’ve seen in our service – Christ-centered worship – will stick with them.
 

Wholesome Presence

Throughout the service, I keep a close eye on what’s happening on the live stream. I’m greeting people who join, I’m letting them know what Scriptures are being read, and I tell them they can ask for prayer publicly or confidentially. I’m moving the camera to keep the “action” in the frame; I’m answering questions, reacting to comments, troubleshooting connections, and generally being present for those who join us. It’s made a difference. We’re averaging about 4 people weekly who watch the entire service as it’s happening, up from 1 person about a year ago. We want our live presence on Facebook to be inviting and life-giving. When a significant number of the things people scroll past are bad news and tactless opinions, our service can be an oasis in a desert. I’m striving weekly to make it so.
 

Location

You’ve heard the reasons we do this, so now I should probably say a word about why I sit where I sit, since I’m rudely on my phone the whole service in view of just about everyone. The short answer is that closer is better. We’re using a phone, which means the further away we are from the action, the harder it is to feel immersed at home. When we’re closer, we’re less likely to be streaming someone’s backside – and anyone can agree that’s a good thing. When we have a space we can call our own and better equipment, the camera won’t have to be so close to the front, but until then we make do.
 

Social Media as a Whole

Finally, social media is a part of our culture and is now a vital part of our life together at Servants. It’s a free and easy way to show the world that our community is vibrant and caring. Anytime you’re with someone from Servants and you post to social media, consider using #ServantLifeGNV as a way to share our life together with others. This is the official Servants hashtag and almost all our posts will use it going forward so anyone can see with one click what we’re about. It doesn’t have to be an official Servants event to get the hashtag – our life together is about so much more than what goes on in the church building each week.
 
If you have any questions or concerns about hashtags, social media, live streaming, or anything related to communications, I’d love to talk to you. Contact me at nikki@servantsanglican.org.
 
 
 
 
 
Nikki Smith has attended Servants since 2012. She’s a wife and a mom, the director of communications and a youth leader at Servants, and when time allows, she’s a bookworm.


Seeking Financial Contentment: Biblical Principles, Practical Tools

 
For I have learned to be content with whatever I have. I know what it is to have little, and I know what it is to have plenty. In any and all circumstances I have learned the secret of being well-fed and of going hungry, of having plenty and of being in need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me. Philippians 4:11b-13 (NRSV)
 
Whether we like it or not, money is a huge part of our lives. We spend a significant portion of each day earning money, spending money, thinking about money. That is not inherently a bad thing, but for many people it is a source of worry and obsession. And the world does not help by its push to consume and acquire more. This stress and worry is not what God wants for us, and the church is to be about helping people get out from under this weight and showing that there is a better way to live.
 
Unfortunately, the church as a whole has a problem talking about money. Either the church talks about money so much that people feel like that’s all it cares about. Or, to avoid being perceived as the former, it deemphasizes and avoids the subject. In either case, it often times fails to address or provide solutions for the real-world difficulties with which people are struggling. So the call from the church to give sacrificially often only adds to the guilt and stress.
 
Adrienne and I want to help fill that gap. The Bible provides answers to our real-world struggles, and we believe that the answer to financial stress lies in contentment – the opposite goal that the world presents. As we learn to be content with what we have, to recognize that we are called to be stewards of what God has entrusted to us, then it is easier to practically manage our possessions. This perspective is one of the ways we “learn to do everything Jesus said.”
 
Starting on September 20th, Adrienne and I will be facilitating a class on biblical principles for dealing with money and practical guides to budgeting and financial management. The 8-week class will be part book study – where we will go through Your Money Counts together learning the biblical perspective on “earning, spending, savings, investing, giving, and getting out of debt” – and part budgeting workshop – where we will introduce tools and techniques for managing money on a daily basis. We will be meeting at the church from 6:30 – 8:00pm with childcare provided.
 
So whether you are a natural saver or are living paycheck to paycheck, join us on September 20th for the class overview to discuss what the Bible has to say on being financially content. Contact us at JoseAndAdrienne@boada.org if you plan to attend or have any questions. You can also RSVP on our Facebook event page.
 
 
 
Jose Boada
 
 
Though both Jose and Adrienne have some experience in finance – Jose has led a Crown Financial Ministries course, and Adrienne has a degree in finance and is our treasurer – they would hardly classify themselves as experts. Since everyone struggles with money in some shape or form, they both have a passion for bringing people together to learn how to find financial contentment in Christ. On a more personal level, they both love the Gators and traveling to visit friends.


But Don’t Jaywalk

 
To my knowledge, I have no enemies. If I did, I would be obligated to carry out a number of inconvenient activities including loving, blessing, praying for, and doing good things for them (Luke 6:27-31). But, like I said, I have a shortage of people who are cursing me, mistreating me, striking me, or taking my stuff. So I feel pretty blessed.
 
I do have some friends who I greatly enjoy spending time with. I love them and they are pretty easy to love. But spiritually speaking, it seems this is neither particularly beneficial nor even creditworthy (Luke 6:32-34).
 
My life is infested with neighbors. I have people all around me as I work, travel, and run errands. I also have a large number of Merriam-Webster definition neighbors. But this seems an overwhelming number of people to love as myself. And who is my neighbor, anyway?
 
I grew up hearing the parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:29-37), but to be honest, it never quite made sense to me. Jesus tells the story to answer the “who is my neighbor?” question, but pretty much turns the question back on the questioner: “Which of these three, do you think, proved to be a neighbor to the man who fell among the robbers?” (Luke 10:36). As everyone knows, the answer to the question is “the Samaritan.” But what is the answer for me?
 
I think the answer lies in the relationship between the Jews (i.e., the questioner in the story) and the Samaritans, which (as my commentary informs me) was one of hostility. So it looks like my neighbor specifically includes those people I feel hostility towards, that I really don’t like, those people I see coming down the sidewalk and (if I am honest with myself) just wish I could cross to the other side of the street and avoid having to deal with.
 
Jesus is telling us when we see ______ (fill in blank with people you really don’t like) on the other side of ______ (pick a busy street) during rush hour traffic, we must cross over to them and dish out some serious love. It might involve providing a ride, money, or a place to stay (Luke 6:34-35), but you can expect it to be one thing: inconvenient.
 
Only then will we prove to be a neighbor.
 
 
 
 
 
 
Justin Smith has been a member of Servants since 2012. He’s a lector, a sound guy, and serves on the vestry. He’s a fantastic father and husband, too.